This has my mind running around in circles. I’m open to try a lot sexually. Having said that, I’m not sure how I would respond if my partner expressed a desire for race play. The politics of desire and erotics are hardly discussed in the LGBT community in the Netherlands. We like to believe that what we find attractive/desirable is deeply personal, however, our desires, our wants and needs, are largely shaped by our culture, and historically situated. I need to process this.
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